
Tinder India head Taru Kapoor talks to FactorDaily
It’s a hot sunny afternoon in Delhi and I have a posh date in an upscale hotel here. No, it’s not a Tinder date, but I am meeting Tinder’s India head, no less.
Taru Kapoor, 29, a Harvard Business School graduate, was born and brought up in Delhi and received her B.Tech and M.Tech degrees in chemical engineering from IIT-Delhi. She joined the US-headquartered Tinder in January this year, when the company launched its India operations — its first office outside the US. In her previous stints, she worked with Sequoia Capital India and The Boston Consulting Group.
Sipping on a cup of cappuccino and biting into a cookie, Kapoor remarks that Tinder is more than just a dating app. A recent survey by the company has revealed that most users are on the platform to meet people, and not necessarily date.
“We asked people what they were looking for on Tinder, and the first answer was ‘meeting new and interesting people’. The second answer with a fair margin was ‘dating,’” she tells me.
In what is almost a revelation to me, she goes on to comment that people are actually even getting hired through Tinder.
“Did you say hired?” I ask her. Sensing my disbelief, she explains, “Lots of people are hired on Tinder, by the way. They (employers) find young people, especially if they are looking for people who are passionate about a certain thing… photographers, writers… Some of those skills are just harder to recruit for.”
In what is almost a revelation to me, she goes on to comment that people are actually even getting hired through Tinder.
Well, there’s a newer connotation of the phrase ‘perfect match’!
From hiring, the conversation veers towards discussing Tinder ‘hacks’. If one wanted to gauge ‘what works’ or learn a few tricks to popularise a Tinder profile, what’s better than hearing it from the Tinder India head herself?
So I begin by mentioning that a lot of my friends, especially males, complain about not getting ‘enough matches’ on the app. Kapoor doesn’t comment on the gender ratio on Tinder, an important question that keeps coming up in discussions about why many men face difficulty in getting dates.
But she does list out a set of do’s and don’ts for Tinder users.
Avoid putting up selfies and group photos, she says. Getting good pictures clicked in different settings that depict your interests is a great idea. “If you like reading or if you play music or if you went on a trip… I mean show different personalities, show different sides of you. It’s a reflection of who you are, your chance to make a first impression.”
With a wry smile, she also goes on to suggest that users not “hide their faces with sunglasses and bandanas.”
But she does list out a set of do’s and don’ts for Tinder users.
Last month, Hollywood star Zac Efron shared his experience of being on Tinder and not getting anyone to swipe right on him, because most people assumed it was a fake profile .
Kapoor laughs about it and says the company has since verified his profile. A verified profile on Tinder is much like the ones on Twitter and Facebook, and comes with a blue tick.
“There are lots of celebrities on Tinder and with famous people, you might sort of go… ‘is it really him’ kind of thing, that’s why we verify the profile as soon as we get to know, but we don’t always know,” says Kapoor.
In India too, there are celebrities on Tinder but Kapoor tells me “there aren’t that many who are public, but it’s increasing.”
“It’s very normal abroad, but in India there’s a lot more scrutiny,” she says revealing that former Australian cricketer Shane Warne too has been a Tinder user.
In India too, there are celebrities on Tinder but Kapoor tells me “there aren’t that many who are public, but it’s increasing.”
Although Tinder set up an India office early this year, the app has been live in the country for four years. However, from a critical mass perspective, the app has been going strong for around two and a half years in the country.
Kapoor believes that the initial skepticism and inhibitions around the app are now gone. She talks about how cultures expand and how technology has played a role in making the world a smaller and more connected place, in reply to my question about Indian youth embracing Tinder readily.
“Initially, when fewer people were on it, people had inhibitions about a dating app. It’s changed very rapidly, and see, it’s an accepted part of our lifestyle and popular culture today. Meeting people is important — like, how else do you meet new people?” Kapoor says.
As a matter of fact, India is one of Tinder’s top 5 markets in Asia.
In a country like India, questions may be posed about the liberating potential of an app like Tinder, especially for women. I ask Kapoor if she thinks Tinder has played a role in helping women express their sexuality more openly.
While abstract at first, she goes on to comment: “Tinder is very empowering because if, as a woman, I walk up to someone and if I’m interested in them and I say ‘hello’, there’s going to be this sense of judgement. I don’t know what they’re going to think of me. There’s always been this huge psychological barrier, structural barrier to just expressing yourself and go look for whatever it is that you’re looking for. It’s hard for everyone to meet new people, but it’s way harder for women.”
She suggests that having a platform like Tinder tends to give women a sense of control and comfort: “You share as much information about you as you want and when you want. And that gives you a lot of power.”
Before we wind up the hour-long conversation, I ask her about Indian copycat apps that have been flooding the market. “We don’t really worry about competition. We are market leaders by a very wide margin. Lots of companies come, go, copy, die, de-grow all the time. I think ultimately the platform that delivers the best experience will win, that’s it,” Kapoor assures us as she signs off.